Written by Ivy
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14 February 2010
Hello all you people out in the world of Unscripted Life!
This is SweetD, the husband of the founder of this website, my lovely wife. Being that my beautiful wife has been asking me to post on her site ever since her launch a few years ago and it is Valentine's Day, I thought that this would be a perfect gift. Now cue up the cheesy music and the white background while I hunt down the e-Harmony pH D guy to talk about how his 800 questions can find you a mate.
Let me start by telling you a little bit about her. She is hands down the most wonderful, exciting, loving, beautiful, thoughtful, wild, sexy, smart, inspiring, funny, silly, goofy, warm, and perfect person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. It was pure chance that we met. At college, we moved in to the same neighborhood together on the same day, she lived right behind me, we actually shared a yard, but we didn't meet for a year later. I actually knew and hung out with her brother the entire year and not once did he mention his hot sister that lived behind me (he picked up real quick that I was nothing but trouble right from the start). Then the day came when she got her puppy, Sexi Lexi, this little runt beagle with two different colored eyes. Every night I would awake to the sounds of, “BAD DOG! NO, NO, we don't pee in the house!” It wasn't until a daylight version of this spectacle that I got to see the sexy neighbor. And myself, being the Mach 3 genius that I am, came up with an amazing plan, cut her grass, if she thanks you, then ask her out...she passed. I can honestly say that it was love at first sight, it was almost as if I was talking with someone I had known my whole life but just met. Everything was so fluid, so seamless, no awkward silences, posturing, or nervous laughter, just as if I instantly had a new best friend. I can still remember how struck I was with her beauty, how her smile would light up the darkest room, her infectious laughter, and how the slightest touch would fire every synapse in my body. How excited I was to see her again when she was gone, how each moment I would think of her and how I could make her happy, make her proud of me, make her complete. I wanted to learn everything about her, I wanted her to know everything about me, I wanted to be there for her whatever the call or need. She was everything.
Fast forward 6 years later (Wayne's World reference inbound) Didily do, Didily do, Didily do, waving hands fade in.
One year courtship, Five years of marriage, med-school, two jobs, one child, new house, new hometown, 7 different wife hairstyles, +/- 50 pounds in either of our direction, and one website later, here we are. After all that we have been through, I do not feel the same way as I did back then. I feel MORE passionately about her, MORE in love, MORE in awe of everything she is and everything she has become. It is as if everything I felt before now has more meaning and purpose then ever before. She truly makes me a better person. I am more of a man, more of a father, more of a husband, friend, companion, than I ever was before I met her. Everything in my life that I didn't even know that I was missing was completed by her love. I continue to strive to make her proud of me, to make her happy, to show her how much she means to me. I have never been easy to deal with, I am easy to anger, I have more monthly visits than she does and last time I checked...I've got dude parts. I drop big news on her at a moments notice. I have a tendency to make big, hasty decisions without her input. I can be selfish, thoughtless, callous, and cruel. But for whatever reason, she loves me with all her heart and makes an effort to show me each and every day in a new way. I am truly blessed to have her in my life and I have no idea of what I would do without her. She inspires me to be great and I only hope that I can.
In closing, I love you honey, you are my everything, Happy Valentine's Day.
PS: Don't hurt me for posting on your website :).